Review: Bullying Under Attack by Stephanie H. Meyer

Posted October 21, 2013 in Review / 3 Comments

bullying under attack2Bullying Under Attack: True Stories Written by Teen Victims, Bullies + Bystanders
By Stephanie H. Meyer (editor), Emily Sperber, Heather Alexander, John Meyer
Published September 3rd, 2013
HCI Teens
267 pages
Non-Fiction
Source: Received from HCI (via NetGalley) in exchange for an unbiased review (Thank you very much!)

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About the Book:

WORDS ARE POWERFUL- they can inflict damage and they can heal. In this anthology of first-person accounts written by teenagers for both their peers and adults, words transform pain into hope and the possibility for change.

 

Bullying Under Attack is an eye-opening anthology of all three players in the bullying cycle. These conversational essays on life as the bullied, the bully, and the bystander provide insight and inspiration for change. Rather than offer a cumbersome psychological breakdown, this graceful and hard-hitting book places the reader firmly in the shoes of all involved.

 

The stories written by The Bullied explain the subtleties and agony of harassment, helping readers understand that there is more to unkind words and behavior than “just joking around.” Although many of these teens have suffered through harassment by their peers, their essays are both empowering and inspiring. By exploring the essays by The Bullies, readers will discover that the bullies are often times incorrectly labled as bad kids, but many are simply trying to fit in, despite their own insecurities and fears. While these bullies may still have their own seemingly insurmountable obstacles at home, they share their experiences and insights hoping to manage and reforming other bullies. The section voiced by The Bystander shares tales of those who have regrettably watched and those who have stepped up to help others. Here, readers will find the inspiration to speak out rather than just standing by while others are emotionally harmed.

 

Whether due to race, weight, or jealousy, there are a myriad of reasons WHY. Included in this startling compendium of personal stories that convey the complexity and nuances of what it means to be bullied, are stories of regret, promises, and encouragement that will help readers find solace during their teen years and show them how—as adults—their words and actions can provide strength and reassurance to others experiencing all aspects of bullying. Ultimately, they will learn to find their voices in order to break the cycle for good.

Every book has it’s purpose.  Whether it’s to entertain, distract, teach, or serve as drink coaster.  Sometimes it’s not until you’re halfway through a book that you realize what purpose the book you’re holding will serve.  It was in the “Foreward” section of the Bullying Under Attack, contributed by John Halligan, that I realized the true purpose of this non-fiction book.

First, let me share with you a little about this book.  I requested this book on NetGalley because bullying is a subject that I have always and will always be on the lookout for.  Being the mother of a high-functioning autistic child, I know he’s got a tough road ahead of him.  I’ve worked in an elementary school lunchroom and I work often in the children’s room at our library.  I’ve seen how cruel young children can be without even knowing they are doing it.  My son is no exception and I hope to educate him to treat everyone how he himself would want to be treated.  I just imagine what life for my son will be like when he gets older.

And that brings me to why this book is so unique.  It contains stories not just from the side of the person being bullied.  It also contains stories and perspectives told by those watching on the sidelines and from the bullies themselves.

In the Introduction of the book, the editor(s) explains how this book came to be.  In brief, there was a contest held by Nicholas Kristof, a columnist at the New York Times.  He had written an article about bullying and then ran a national contest, looking for submissions from teens about their experiences with bullying.  Together with Teen Ink (a magazine and website completely devoted to teen writing, art, and forums) they compiled the best works to put into a book.

This anthology is organized brilliantly.  There are eight chapters, each dealing with one aspect of bullying, whether it’s surviving bullying, cyber bullying, or diversity.  It’s all organized well.  Within those chapters, there are multiple works ranging from essays, poems, and even works of art and photography (truly amazing!).  Each of these individual works could be written from the point of view of the victim, the bystander, or the bully themself.  Some are written in the moment. Some are looking back in time.

I was just blown away by the voices I read in these pieces.  Both heart breaking and inspirational.

Not to leave it just at that, this anthology ends with a great summary written by Dr. Ramani Durvasula.  In it, she summarizes the state of bullying today and ways (or clues) that parents/families/teachers can seek to identify early problems in a child’s life.

There’s also a fabulous section with tons of links for online resources for help with bullying.

Not to be too obvious but to bring it all back around to the purpose of this book…  it’s certainly not to be the drink coaster under a can of soda. 

I truly believe this book should be available in every library, whether it’s a school library or public library.  To have a book like this that a teen can go to, open up, and read stories written by fellow teens, IN THEIR OWN WORDS, I believe is a huge comfort to those kids wondering what to do when they are dealing with a bully in their life.  They could show the book to their parents.  They could use the online resources in the back.  As the bystander, they could just hand it to a victim.  The uses are endless.

October is National Bullying Prevention Month

For more information, check out the

National Bullying Prevention Center

Teens Against Bullying

Kids Against Bullying

 

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Kristin

About Kristin

Kristin has to ensure she gets her minimal requirement of "happily ever after" books in between those books that contain cliffhangers and never-ending story arcs. It's for her family's sake. When not reading, she's homeshooling her 10-year old son, watching cartoons on TV, or taking a nap.

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3 responses to “Review: Bullying Under Attack by Stephanie H. Meyer

  1. It sounds like this takes a well rounded approach, and I have always said we need to look at the bully and why he acts the way he does. Wonderful review, my son is special too, and interacting was never easy for him. Bullies made his life miserable at times, and any insight is beneficial for all parties involved.
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